Nursing with a Very Very Big Bust
Bust size does not determine if you, as a mother of a newborn, can breastfeed. Not at all. Motherhood is wonderful. It is a experience of utter love. As the mother of four young children, I know this. I wouldn't have my life any other way, and my life seems so much more fuller with them.
Bust size does not determine if you can breastfeed, can nurse. I have some friends who are so small breasted, without their gorgeous looks and slender hourglass, female forms, you might (I say MIGHT) mistake them as men. Though, again, probably not because they DO have shape. (Trying to save face in case one of them reads this.) A specific friend, who is small chested, has birthed, nursed and raised three darling children. And I recall them being well-fed and chubby little things when she was doing her thing.
I was quite nervous about being able to nurse my kiddos. With the issue of hardly able to control them when fully harnessed due to size, I thought how in the heck am I going to hoist and hold up a little babychild to suckle on one of my gargantuan boobs...made even bigger by the production of motherly milk.
My firstborn I worked with one of the neonatal nurses at the hospital to literally get the hang of nursing with way above-average sized breasts. She taught me the underhand/underarm breast cradle technique where I am kind've scooping my boob up from underneath, hoisting it up a bit, then able to bring baby to nipple, and controlling things so I don't pile drive my boob into the kid's head and face. I learned that a good dense but soft throw pillow is where its at as, so as to not tire out my arm, I simply slip a pillow under my boob of choice while feeding and can nurse with one hand and drink my much needed juice or water with my now-freehand. (Nursing is like the kiddo sucking your system dry...a good glass of water or two is a necessity to have near by.)
My next three, my bust got even bigger than before, then got a bit bigger with another round of lactating and nursing. It was like my own kiddos were continuously making me bigger. However, I used the same technique...and same throw pillow...to get the motherly job done.
It doesn't matter your bust size, little ones or great big gargantuan ones, you can nurse your little ones appropriately and reasonably and with great joy. Motherhood is a wonderful thing.
Have a great day and be nice to each other. Think BIG and stay positive.
Mandy/Helia

Well that's a good technique to do
ReplyDeleteIt worked and works... without smooshing the little one. <3
DeleteYou got some good advice. Thank you for spreading it out into the world.
ReplyDeleteI know it's not necessarily tailored to everyone, but I also figure you guys might want to know... in case you're with a very big bosomed gal who fears she might have an issue nursing. <3
DeleteYou should get a publisher and write a book. I’d buy
ReplyDeleteOr self-publish
DeleteNursing is also a very loving wonderful bond and connection with mutual adults too! ...knightttttt from fet
ReplyDeleteI 1000% agree.
DeleteI only want to become father of your baby no.5 so have lots of tryout before it happens and they get even bigger, when pregnant, again.
DeleteOh my. :) Well, it is a certainty these big things would be getting a whole lot bigger if I got pregnant again.
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